Mr. Perfect!?

Is there such thing as a Mr. Perfect? The media and everyone I know keeps telling us girls, it’s okay Mr. Perfect is on his way! or don’t worry, you’ll meet the ‘right guy’ soon enough. Is there such a thing as a perfect male? when we were little girls disney movies portrayed guys as strong, romantic, and overall in control. Are they like that in real life? I feel like now boys are in it for one simple goal… and we all know what that is. 😉 In this picture below, we see hercules as the main character by putting him in the middle holding a “heavy sign” to show his strength. Next to him is his girlfriend who is much smaller to show that she sumits to him and she’s his right hand persay. Is this how it should be? should girls always be a guy’s right hand and do as he says?

Definitions, like rules, are meant to be broken.

Romantic- the word guys use to describe actions and thing they will no longer do after they get their way with you and even more so after marriage. Also known as the period guys and girls use to trick their partner into thinking they are not like all the other human beings.

Love- the word used to describe when a man or a woman takes over his/her partner’s life and turns it into his/her own. Making the person the master and the partner its slave.

Does Romanticism still do the trick?

From the moment I was born, my grandmother always talked about what type of men I should look for when I was older. She would always say, “Ally, you have to look for a man just like Frank Sinatra!” I never really asked her why until recently and she replied “just listen to  ‘Fly Me To The Moon’ and you’ll see why.” She then told me that the moment that I found a guy that made me feel that way and want that, well then that’s what it was all about. Is that true though? Do we still live in a world that believes in words such as…

Fly me to the moon

Does this mean that a person has to literally fly one to the moon to show them that they love them? Does a person have to be literally up in the sky to prove and feel love for another person. If that’s the case, what about the people that are afraid of heights? Can they still be in love?
Let me play among the stars

Does he not know that a star can’t be touched? Has romanticism led us to believe that the only place we can experience the full meaning of love is in another atmosphere? Can we not play among the flowers and experience the same feelings for one another as we would playing ‘among the stars’ and if that’s the case could we not just buy those sticks that we light up and twinkle when we light them up? Could that make us feel the same way? I guess the more important question is, what if we fly someone to the moon and we let them play among the stars but we don’t have any sort of special feelings towards them? Is the fact that everyone who is in love “feels this way” going to make the other person begin to have feelings for the person who flew them to the moon?

Let me see what spring is like

If I’m not mistaken spring is better seen and felt on earth in the ground where you can see the flowers and smell them as well. If you’re flying to the moon isn’t it cold? Don’t you have to wear a special suit to be able to float? How will you be able to experience spring?

On a-Jupiter and Mars

This is just silly, these two are way too far from one another. it is said to be the same distance from earth to the sun. The distance that is necessary for us not to burn to death. Therefore, why would we pick two planets that up to this day have not proven to have seasons to look at how spring is like?
In other words, hold my hand
In other words, baby, kiss me
That’s right, silly me, how did I not understand that those lines meant hold my hand and kiss me. Why don’t all the guys just say fly me to the moon and let me see what spring is like to let a girl know they want to hold her and kiss her?

Therefore, is this still a good way to determine how to pick “the love of your life?” or the so called loved one? Is romanticism still the way to get to a girls heart? Could a guy actually make a girl fall in love and remain in love by flying her to the moon? If so, why don’t we hear about more successful trips to the moon? 😉